The Pregnant Woman's Pocket Kamasutra - Élhée

The pregnant woman's pocket Kamasutra  

ARTICLE SUMMARY :

  • Pregnancy libido update
  • Andromache the conqueror
  • Romantic lotus
  • The adventurous square
  • The anvil, yes the anvil, or the oyster position
  • Doggy style
  • Two teaspoons for a dollop of love

For a long time (too long), the idea that sex and pregnancy don't mix was imposed on women, and in turn, on their partners. Today we know that, from a medical point of view, when there are no contraindications - and they are rare - sexual relations between parents during pregnancy pose no risk to the child, who is perfectly protected by the amniotic sac and a hermetically sealed cervix. On the contrary! Cuddles and pleasures, given and received, release endorphins which are analgesic (they soothe pain), anxiolytic (they reduce anxiety and stress) and relaxing, making for a well-deserved nap or night's sleep.

Pregnancy libido update

At this stage, it's worth remembering that sexual relations are fulfilling when they are fully consensual. However, throughout the 9 months of preparing and expecting a baby, the libido of the parents-to-be can change enormously.

Often non-existent in the first trimester due to intense female fatigue, it can exceed all expectations between the 3rd and 6th months of pregnancy, only to become more discreet and hide behind an increasingly bulky, rounded belly. Your breasts may be too sore to touch, your libido may remain at half-mast no matter what you do, you may be completely sucked into your new role, or your mother-to-be body may disturb your partner to such an extent that he or she is stopped in his or her tracks.

On the contrary, other women enjoy a blossoming sexuality throughout their pregnancy. So, for them and for all the others, for every moment of complicity and intimacy, Élhée has concocted a little pocket kamasutra, specially adapted for pregnant women, to slip into your bedside table.

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Andromache the conqueror

For those special days when your libido is at its peak and you want to impress Jules, take control of the situation and settle on top of him! The Andromache position lets youadapt the pace and depth of penetration, for a comfortable cuddle... as long as your belly isn't too heavy.

Romantic lotus

Again, best reserved for the first trimester or the beginning of the second, the lotus position is the most romantic of all. Sitting opposite each other, or rather, entangled with each other, you can kiss, touch and stare at each other until you're blue in the face.

The adventurous square

Either your bed is high, or the angled position is likely to take you into other rooms of the house. Lying on your back, place your buttocks right on the edge of the bed (again, if it's the right size), raise your legs and let them rest against your partner's chest. 

Positioned at 90°, you enjoy a very comfortable angle of penetration and your hands are free to caress each other... which is sure to raise the level of excitement!

The anvil, yes the anvil, or the oyster position

Even if its name doesn't exactly sound appealing, the anvil position is definitely worth a try. Lying on your back, you place your ankles on your partner's arms or shoulders, who can then penetrate you gently, without ever leaning on your stomach.

Happy, it also enjoys free access to your whole body, or almost your whole body. For added comfort, add a cushion under your loins, which will raise your pelvis slightly.

Doggy style

High on the pregnant woman's kamasutra, doggy style can be practiced throughout pregnancy, as long as you're comfortable. Place yourself on all fours, with arms outstretched or folded, as you wish.

What's next? All that's left for you to do is let the gentleman behind you enjoy a moment of pleasure that's often enhanced tenfold by the angle and depth of penetration you're able to control.

Two teaspoons for a dollop of love

This is undoubtedly THE must-have position for all pregnant women, especially in the third trimester. Lie on your side (preferably on the left to avoid compressing the vena cava) and invite your partner to join you, to stick to you, to melt into you like two little spoons arranged side by side. 

All you have to do is let yourself go, and for added comfort, you can even slip a little pillow under your belly to enjoy the tender moment to the full.